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Truth or Dare Cards "You
need 50 index cards. On 20 of them, write sexy or romantic things to do to each other. On the other 30, write different questions
or dares. If you pull a card with a question or dare, you have to do what the card says to keep the card. If you don’t,
your partner gets it. At the end, the one with the most cards gets a prize."
A Keepsake of Our Song My husband and I weren't planning on doing anything
for Valentine’s Day. We had decided to just get each other gifts and be done with it. I have always had a hard time
surprising him so I was hoping to by getting him something he had wanted for a long time. Unfortunately, he had found it hidden
in the living room couch - which no one sits on! As Valentine’s Day got closer I still wanted to surprise him so I got
six balloons and placed a note in each one. Each note told him where to go to pop the next balloon. By the time he got to
the bedroom I was standing there with the song that we danced to at our wedding playing, and a bottle in my hand. In the bottle
were the lyrics to our song printed on old-looking paper. He loved it! --submitted by Michele
A Kiss For Every Laugh! This is a great way to spend time with your
loved one and also get to watch a funny movie. Rent a movie that you both agree is hilarious (Monty Python and the Quest for
the Holy Grail is my suggestion). Start watching it and agree that each time one laughs, (s)he has to kiss each other. Whoever
laughed the least gets to choose a romantic idea to do after the movie. --submitted by Michael
A Love Puzzle Buy a Puzzle (about 100 pieces) and assemble it. Turn
in over and write a romantic message on the back. Take it apart. Have a candle light dinner and present it to her. Let her
know that there is a message waiting for her. --submitted by Carlos R Castro
A Night of Chess My Boyfriend and I are both novice chess players. What
we do is put on next to nothing, set up the board, pour some wine and light a few scented candles and stratigicly place them
around just enough to light the board and let the games begin. I bet you won't be able to finish the game, but you may get
lucky enough to start a new one. --submitted by Anonymous
A Puzzle of Me For Valentine's Day, I sent a photo to a puzzle company
(you can find them on the Internet) and they put it on a heart-shaped puzzle. The whole week before Valentine’s Day,
I'm going to mail him a few pieces a day with a love quote to go with it. --submitted by Michelle
A Ransom Note Champagne, games, and roses are nice but can get very
boring after a while. Instead, get creative and do something off the wall. My girlfriend has this stuffed animal that she
adores and keeps on her bed. So I decided to kidnap the stuffed animal making a ransom note from cutting letters out of the
news paper.In the letter it said " give me a McDonalds cheeseburger and a six pack of beer or your stuffed pig is pork." Then
I took a picture of it on a plate with an apple by it and a fork and knife by the edge of the plate. I then placed the ransom
letter and picture on her door. Of course when she saw it she new it was me but we had a fun time with it. She would make
playful and sarcastic comments and of course I played back. Needless to say I gave the stuffed animal back making myself look
like the hero and she rewarded me with a nite of love. However, your mate must have a good sense of hummor or you might spend
the nite on the couch. --submitted by Brian
A Romantic Combination I just had to write to you about my experience
after reading this site and combining three ideas with a little twist involved. I started the evening with a game. It consisted
of little notes throughout my house that led her back to me to find out how the evening would start, but I did it with a twist.
I read here that some individuals would leave a trail of Hershey’s Kisses…instead I left notes on where to find
the main note that sent her back to me. Along with each note I laid a white rose. At the end, where the final note was, I
laid three pink roses tipped with red. When she came to her final destination (me) she was all smiles. I asked her to chose
a number from 1 - 10 (read that here too) she chose 6. I gave her six kisses all on different places of her body. After that
I revealed 6 cards, with the word, “EATS” on one side and on the other, listing a restaurant. After choosing her
card, we went to eat. I brought with me another set of cards for our trip there and back. They included, "At each red light
kiss him/her 1 time", along with others such as, "at this very moment give him/her a passionate kiss.” Well, I received
that card and commenced to pull over on the highway, stop, and lay one on her that she'd never forget. The cards also included,
"Tell him/her something sensual about yourself”, “Tell him/her something you think is sexy about them", “Tell
him/her something that you have yet to reveal about your past” and so on. Not all cards referred to sex or sensual stuff
but questions that were not normally asked on a date regarding their past of likes and dislikes, just something to get to
know them better. While at the restaurant, there was another set of cards to determine what the events of the evening would
consist of after dinner. Examples of card choices were: a sensual massage next to the stone hearth fire, movies, watching
a band, romantic evening walk under the stars, and so on. The whole evening went off without a hitch and she was impressed
to say the least! Just wanted to let some of you out there know that even when reading the ideas here on the site, don't forget
you can combine them to make an even better evening for you and your date, girlfriend, lover or wife...have fun creating romance! --submitted by Kirk
A letter hunt My boyfriend told me that he would leave me a love note
on my computer for when I got home. Well, he did just that and more. He sent me running around the house finding these little
"clues" to where the real love letter was. After running up and down the stairs, finding clues in the cookie jar, ice cream
container, under my pillow, in the bathroom, on the tv, and so on-he led me to the wine cellar in the basement where there
sat a dozen roses with yet another "clue" as to where my love letter was. He had taped it to the back of the teddy bear he
gave me for x-mas. It was the sweetest thing in the world even though I felt silly running through the house like I did. --submitted by Anonymous
Acting Like A Kid Once my boyfriend was really down, so to cheer him
up I took him to Chuck E. Cheese. We had pizza and played games. It was a lot more fun than I thought it would ever be and
it lifted my boyfriends spirits. --submitted by Anonymous
Always Win Poker Invite your partner to play a game of poker. Take notepaper
and rip ten or more pieces of paper. Tell your partner to write down things they want to do or not have to do and make them
neutral so that the opposing partner can use them as well. Play poker and gamble using the strips of paper for ante. Do not
look at which ones you use just ante up. Play for a set time; 1 hour is good. We both ended up with some of each other's papers.
We then kept them and were able to use the notes whenever we liked. It was great! Ideas can be anything from sexual favors
(maybe limited + or -), massage time, shopping time, romance letter or time, chores, cuddle time, etc. Have fun! --submitted by Robert
Another Game Of Love Cards You can play cards game with your loved one, buy one box
of cards (ordinary playing cards), when both are ready to sleep suggest that you play them. Here are the rules: 1. When one
wins the other one has to take off his clothes, one per win until you are both naked then... Try it is fun. --submitted by Sandra
Award Worthy Pick up a ribbon award at your local dollar store (you know the ones
for kids achievements - "I can go potty by myself” - LOL). Anyway, pick one up that fits the occasion. I got my boyfriend
a "top performance" award ribbon and presented it to him after a wonderful lovemaking session. It's always a great thing to
have fun in a relationship. --submitted by Anonymous
Balloon Squeeze To be played during or just prior to very intimate moments. You blow
up ten (or more) of those 9 - 12 inch round party balloons. Put as many in between you and your lover while lying in bed together.
Then you both hug and squeeze and kiss, while squashing the balloons in between your bodies trying to break them. I did this
with my boyfriend once and it was fun. He even put sweet little love notes into some of the balloons so I could read them
after we popped them. PS The balloons are a lot harder to pop this way then you might imagine. Enjoy!! --submitted by Irene
Basketball Strip Game In any room in the house set up a little basketball hoop. Then
shoot hoops. If he scores, she strips, and if she scores, he strips and so on. This is really fun and the loser has to do
whatever the winner says. The more creative you are, the more fun it will be! --submitted by Anonymous
Bedroom Antics You will need several small sized bits of card or paper (card is best)
to make this playing deck. Split the paper/card into two equal piles. On one pile write suggestive actions, e.g. kiss....
massage etc. On the other set, write body parts. The more unusual the suggestions, the better! Keep the two piles separate.
Each partner takes their turn to choose one card from each pile, and whatever combination they get they have to perform what
it suggests on their partner. This game, though very sexy can be very funny too, especially after a bottle of wine! Have fun!!!! --submitted by Anonymous
Blind Berry Hunting One partner blindfolds the other. Whoever is not blindfolded
will hide small berries (raspberries, blueberries, etc) all over their body, the person that is blindfolded has to find the
hidden berries using only their mouth. --submitted by Maria
Blindfolded adventure Go to a lake or beach and set up a candle light dinner, wine
or champagne then go to you lover's house and blind fold them, don't tell them what's going on, then drive off to a lake,
doesn't matter just as long as it's romantic. When you get there set them down and cares them with a rose and softly kiss
them then remove the blindfold. Watch the sunset and hold each other from there things will happen. Have fun. --submitted by Ian
Blowing Kisses? Well, sometimes when my boyfriend and I are just messing around we
will be kissing and I will blow into his mouth and make his cheeks puff up really big! He leans back and looks at me and laughs
then we start kissing again to see who can BLOW first! It’s so fun! You should try it! --submitted by LotzaLove
Body Paint Alternative Pudding cups in various flavors work as a great alternative
to commercial body paints; each person gets one cup of each flavor. Use the pudding to finger-paint your lover. When you're
finished painting, you have to lick off your artwork. Then it's their turn to do the same ... or you can try painting each
other at the same time, but that gets messy. This can also be done with containers of yogurt, but pudding works best! --submitted by Sensual Lady
Childhood Games With An Adult Twist Here is an idea I would do for a date night with
my love. First, I'd invite my loved one over and ask him/her to play a few games that we loved so much as kids but add a grown
up twist to it. For example, we would play strip Twister; each person that falls must remove an article of clothing each time
until someone is completely naked, resulting in one of us losing the game in a very seductive manner. We could also play Monopoly;
the first to go to jail has to put on handcuffs, make up the Chance deck with ideas for the card holder to do to the other,
the Community Chest deck would be for the both of you to do to each other, and so on. --submitted by Anonymous
Code Proposal Puzzle I fell madly in love with a girl I was dating, so I proposed
to her this way: a few days before the proposal, I made a puzzle box wherein she had to look for specific words pertaining
to our relationship - words that had special meaning to us - but these words where arranged in a certain way. Once she was
done finding the words she would need to take the decoder I made for this which gets placed over the puzzle to reveal the
message "I'm ready to love you, please be mine ... just say yes and be my love." I added hidden flaps to the puzzle box and
hid the decoder behind one of the flaps and under the other one I hid a cut-out of her name (which had a love letter written
on each letter). I made note cards which had step-by-step instructions, answers to the game, etc., and put them inside. The
last card had a note telling her to look for me outside her house once she was done. I gave the box to her after a dinner
date and told her not to open it until she got home. We separated there and I secretly followed her car to her house. I waited
outside until she came out and found me kneeling on the ground, waiting for her reply ... of course she said yes! Then I told
her to open the trunk of the car and out popped balloons to reveal a huge bouquet of roses! We're on our second month now
and it's been the happiest and best two months ever! Our love is really strong and hopefully it would last forever! --submitted by Raf
Code for I Love You You may not always be in the best place or time to announce your
desire or love for your partner. My boyfriend and I have come up with code words that express the feeling without broadcasting
it. For example when he's surrounded by people at work and cannot say "I love and miss you like crazy" over the phone he just
says, "Home." It's also very sweet when we are together, and he kisses me, looks into my eyes and says softly, "home." --submitted by Jennifer
Coffee and Games I like to take dates to a certain coffee house near my house. I
generally have no money, so when I get some, I don't like spending it too often, but I am one that likes to take guys out
on dates. What I do is go to this certain coffee house with the guy, buy us coffee and dessert and spend about 4 hours there
playing Monopoly. The coffee house provides lots of game boards. However, I'm sure others wouldn't mind if you bring your
own. It's always a fun activity to do and brings out the competitiveness in me! Guys always love seeing that side. If you
don't want to take a board game to a coffee house, try a deck of cards, and teach each other games. --submitted by AthenaMari
Contests of Love Well, my fiancée and I started having a contest in my house. We
would bet on basically anything, and whoever lost had to do what the other said. Ex: Kiss me in a certain place, or say a
certain thing, but no matter what it was we had to do it. It was a lot of fun. --submitted by Anonymous
Custom Playing Cards Put together a collection of photos - enough to make a deck
of playing cards. With just a little bit of know how, just about any picture editing software and a decent color printer and
you and your partner can have custom playing cards with anything from wedding pictures to family albums or the risqué for
the adventurous. It helps to have a digital camera. --submitted by Josh
Daily Comic My boyfriend of three years is an officer in the military. While he's
away either at training or on deployments, I am always racking my brain for something fun or funny for him to look forward
to. One day I thought about the comics section in the paper. I've always saved him great articles and mailed them, but now
I cut out cute or funny comics that I think he will like, write a note on the bottom of each one, and pop them in a card.
It still only costs the price of a stamp, and the fact that he looks so forward to them makes it even more fun to do! --submitted by Amy
Dare or Dare Instead of playing Truth or Dare with your partner, play Dare or Dare.
Dare your partner to do things like "lets make love" or "take off your clothes." It is a great game and it can really turn
you on. --submitted by m.a.n.
Date Of The Month Club For Christmas this year, I am "enrolling" my husband in a
program I call Date-of-the-Month. I created a membership kit which includes things like a Date Planner--a form that allows
him to decide what and where, then I set it up--love coupons, breakfast in bed cards--redeemable anytime--wild cards--for
when he wants me to surprise him with a date--two Mental Health day excuses from work for a day of pure pampering, Treat cards--for
those times he'd really like me to bake him his favorite cookies, etc., a bag of Hershey's kisses--redeemable for the real
thing--and a stuffed heart to be hidden and found as part of an on going game--he hides it for me, I will hide it for him
and so on. I will also throughout the year give him special "Members Only" tickets to "events" such as a "trip" to Hawaii,
or a Valentine's get away. This should make a full year of fun and romance! --submitted by Anonymous
Dictionary for Two My brother did this for his girlfriend for Valentine's Day: he
bought her a dictionary and highlighted a bunch of words that reminds him of her. Then he gave it to her with a different
color highlighter. She loved it, and they had fun reading the words to each other!! --submitted by Anonymous
Dirty Pool If you have access to a private pool/snooker table try a game of Dirty
Pool. The rules are the same as for a normal game with one exception - each player is required to put the other player off
their shot. This can include making suggestive comments, kissing your partner, fondling - I'll leave the rest to your imagination.
You can also make a rule that each game lost means an item of clothing is lost - that's if you make it past the first game....
and no prior experience in playing pool/snooker is needed and it usually leads to a new use of the table top... --submitted by H
Does This Turn You On? Call your partner a few minutes before he gets off of work
and tell him that you will be home later because you are busy (or tell him you will be at your neighbor’s house for
awhile). Also let him know that you have a surprise for him on your bed, so he will go check it out when he gets home. Start
out by gathering 3 small boxes (preferably empty jewelry boxes), some paper, a pen, and tape. Write a note on a piece of paper
that tells him to open the boxes in numerical order. Then number the boxes 1 thru 3. You can tape the numbers to the top of
the boxes. Remember to close the boxes when you are done filling them. Put all of the boxes on the bed. First, place some
cinnamon and vanilla (these smells are supposed to turn on guys) in box number 1. To do this, you can wrap up some cinnamon
spice in a tissue. Then, pour a small amount of vanilla onto another tissue (you can also use anything else that is vanilla
scented, like lotion). Next, take a piece of paper and write on it “Unwrap the tissue and smell these items. Do they
turn you on?” Take this piece of paper and tape it to the inside of the box on the lid. Then close the box. Now
work on box number 2. Be creative with this box. If you have a small picture of yourself, put it in the box. Another item
you could place in the box is a tissue with the scent of your perfume. For this box, remember to relate what is in the box
with what you write on the paper. The last thing that you should write on the paper is “Close your eyes and think of
me. Are you getting turned on?” Then tape this piece of paper to the inside lid of the box, and close the box. Finally,
box number 3; leave this box empty. The only thing that you need to put inside the box is a little note with directions for
him. The note should say, “Are you turned on by now? Turn around for one last question.” When he turns around,
you should be standing in the room with him. Find a place to hide (like in another room) or anywhere so you can watch him
when he is opening up the boxes. You need to be able to see him when he begins to turn around. When he turns around, ask him
a question. There are a few options for what you ask him. Here are a few examples: •“Are you turned on now?”
•“If the boxes did not turn you on, will this turn you on?” (For this question, you need to have a robe
on, be naked underneath the robe, and open up the robe for him to see you). Or you can peak around the corner of the door,
so he can only see your face until you are done asking him the question. Then walk over to him. •“Do you want
me to turn you on some more?”
You should be wearing lingerie, or be naked under a robe. Another option is just
to be standing there naked, so you can walk over to the bed and lay down in a sexy position.
There is another way to
play this game if he is at home. Send him to the store to get something or have him go outside to do something. The important
thing is to make sure that you have enough time to get ready. Then, instead of calling him, you can leave a note by the door,
or somewhere where he will see it. On the note, write “I have a surprise waiting on the bed for you." --submitted by Snowflake
Even and Odd Days Set even & odd days (his/even, hers/odd or vise-versa) to show
how much you love and appreciate each other. Soon the even and odd days turn into everyday! :) --submitted by Teresa
Fantasy Trivial Pursuit Play the game as though it were normal Trivial Pursuit by
collecting the pieces to the pie. Before the game begins, write 3 of your wildest fantasies on paper then put your papers
in a pile with your partners. For every wrong answer, remove an article of clothing. For every missed answer to a pie question,
your partner asks you to perform something of their choice for 30 seconds. Then back to the game. If you can last the length
of the game, the winner receives whatever is drawn by the loser from the winners pile. --submitted by Anonymous
Find the Kissing Spot You need 5 different kinds of perfume, and spray it in 5 different
places on your body. Be creative ... have your lover find all 5 places and have him kiss you there or give you a hickey there
... it is great fun! --submitted by Roze Berry
Follow Your Heart On A Wild Love Chase Being by setting up your "Love Lounge" with
all the right romantic trimmings, candles, oils, flowers, that white fabric stuff (that drapes oh so romantically). Then you
need to send them on a wild love chase to the center of your heart (and um er....other things) by putting notes everywhere.
Begin where they will first walk in the door with a note that directs them to the next note. On each you write a loving statement
or quote (this web site has some awesome ones by the way). Send them on a chase all over the house and garden, until they
come to the end in the "Love Lounge" where you are awaiting their arrival in all your finest trimmings (naked works best hehehehe). --submitted by Jodi
For the Love of Basketball and Me! My boyfriend is a real dedicated basketball player,
and is always practicing. We have this inside joke, where I always ask him where Spaulding is (the brand of a basketball)
because he is always with the basketball. So, one Christmas I bought a Spaulding basketball and crossed out the name Spaulding
and wrote my name in big black permanent marker. As I gave him the basketball, I told him that now he can be with Spaulding
and me at the same time! --submitted by Kristen
Foregammon A while back, I came up with a fun twist on the classic game of backgammon.
This is a great idea if you already know how to play, but you can use it even if you're a first time player! This simple twist
will really spark things with your partner and will truly take your game to the next level. Before you start the game, set
the mood with some soft lighting and romantic music. Sure, you're playing a board game, but a little atmosphere never hurt
anyone. You might want to have some wine nearby to add an element of class to your game. You'll also need to have a pair of
"dirty dice." These dice can be found at any novelty or adult store. One die has different actions on each face and the other
die has body parts. Play the game as you normally would, but if someone rolls doubles, the sexy twist begins! Break out the
dirty dice and let the person who rolled doubles roll the dirty dice. The dice will dictate the "reward" for rolling doubles,
and the value of the doubles dictates how long the reward lasts. Make sure you keep things interesting by changing the way
you give the "reward" a little bit every time. Chances are, if you're really into it, the backgammon game won't last too long.
This game has provided hours of foreplay (hence the name, Foregammon), untold anticipation, breakdown of inhibitions, insight
into your partner's favorite forms of foreplay, and very intense lovemaking and sexual play (not to mention toppled game boards,
ripped clothing, and spilled drinks -- but hey, its all worth it!!!). Give it a try if you're a backgammon couple -- I promise
you will never be disappointed with the game, especially since everyone "wins!" --submitted by T's loving B
Formal Yet Playful Dance Date In high school we had a formal girls choice dance.
My friends and I all went and asked our dates out in creative ways. (I put a plunger in my date-to-be's room with a bag of
Almond Joys attached underneath, with a sign on it that said "I'd be OVERFLOWED WITH JOY if you'd go to the dance with me
- MY NAME WILL POP UP LATER!" Then later that night, when a group of us were hanging out, I suggested that we order pizza.
A couple of my friends went with me to pick it up and on the way back to the house we arranged the sausages to spell my name
on one of the pizzas. We handed several of the boxes out to people to start eating and I handed that pizza to him. When he
opened the box he made a comment on how all the sausages slipped to one side and everyone burst out laughing! He looked again
and his face turned bright red when he realized that it spelled my name!) Anyway, since it was a formal dance we were all
dressed up really nice, (prom type dresses), but even so, when the dance was over, (the entire group of girls had bought handcuffs
previously), all the girls pulled out our handcuffs and handcuffed ourselves to our dates. We then went to the bowling alley
and had to bowl as couples handcuffed to each other in our fancy clothes! It actually hurts a little, but the pleasure was
worth the pain! We had a blast! --submitted by Anonymous
Fun And Games Together Okay, a lot of the time I'm broke, seeing as how I'm young
and I don’t have a job. So this is the PERFECT idea for just some TIME TOGETHER fun. When your girl/boyfriend is at
work, get a spare key to their car. While they’re working - put the back seat down, and put down two comfy blankets
and even some pillows if desired. Then sprinkle rose petals over the blankets and spray a bit of your perfume/cologne. Pack
some food and drinks as well. When they get off work, blind fold them, lead them to the passenger seat and drive them somewhere
romantic and private. Let them take the blind fold off and look around. Then climb in the back, eat and play games. We played
ABC's in which you start with an “A” and take turns going through the alphabet kissing body parts that start with
that letter. We also played where you have a jar of numbers and a list of 4 articles of clothing. Each of you picks a number
for yourselves. Then, take turns picking out a number from the jar … who ever is farthest away from the picked number
must remove one of the articles listed. Take turns until someone has removed all 4 pieces of clothing listed. Then we made
love and just cuddled! It was a night he loved! Of course this would also work at home if you wanted to set up something fun
and romantic for them to come home to. --submitted by MathewzHunni
Fun Rings! One night I got the crazy idea in my head that we needed rings. But we're
in college and completely broke, so we drove to every grocery store in town looking for one of those gumball machines that
has rings in them. After about 6 stores, we finally found one. Now he has a ring with an alligator on it and mine has hearts
on it. The night only cost us what we used in gas plus a $1.00 for the rings. It was a great adventure! --submitted by Jenny
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